• dingus@lemmy.world
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    3 hours ago

    Definitely the latter. Tmi (but the OP is tmi anyway) but I have never been able to feel sexual pleasure so I have never had an orgasm. Nothing wrong with me to my knowledge. I’m not paralyzed or anything and I never had any traumatic sexual encounters. It just doesn’t work like that for me.

  • pixeltree
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    11 hours ago

    Don’t need to cum for to feel amazing from getting my butt filled. However, having fun with people is gonna suck if I can’t laugh.

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    14 hours ago

    Let’s just say if 2 orgasms per week lowers your risk of prostate cancer, I’m pretty sure my prostate will last until the heat death of the universe.

    But this isn’t even close. I’d choose laughter every time.

    • Crackhappy@lemmy.world
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      12 hours ago

      Same here. Life would be awful without being able to laugh, but there are plenty of ways to get pleasure outside of orgasms.

  • ChihuahuaOfDoom@lemmy.world
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    15 hours ago

    If I still get aroused and am unable to orgasm, that would be torture but if I don’t even feel the urge then I would let that go. I don’t laugh often anymore so it can stay or go, I doubt I would miss it.

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      11 hours ago

      There’s something to be said for being a desperate, horny, needy, leaky mess though. Might not be for you but you never know unless you try =D

  • Tiefling IRL
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    11 hours ago

    The latter since due to ADHD and trauma I’m basically already there 🙃

  • ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee
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    11 hours ago

    If I can still get pleasure from the stimulation itself but just be unable to reach climax then I’d choose to live without orgasms.