• callouscomic@lemm.ee
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    2 days ago

    My boomer bitch ass parents used to complain about us needing a few minutes to strap a car seat into a car in the 2010’s.

    “We didn’t need car seats when we were babies and we survived.”

    They were fucking obnoxious.

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      What a dumb thing to say honestly. My sisters boyfriend bought a old stupid pickup truck that doesn’t have seatbelts. He’s so proud of the fact that he doesn’t need seatbelts. I think it’s the main reason that he wanted that car. He drives around his children in it, and the previous owner had it all prepared that you could put in seatbelts, but he would rather die than use seatbelts. Same with helmets. They bought ebikes to go on rides, and everyone wears a helmet except for him. Hy sister tells him all the time to wear one. She has him as far now that he takes a helmet with him, but he’s not wearing it. A almost 50 year old man doesn’t want to look uncool on his bike.

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        Not wearing a helmet on a bike isn’t that unreasonable though. I’ve seen studies that show a positive relation between a cyclist wearing protective gear and cars driving more aggressively around them. So you might actually be less likely to have an accident than when wearing safety gear, since the vast majority are caused by car drivers.

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        A almost 50 year old man doesn’t want to look uncool on his bike.

        Have you noted to him how fucking uncool it is for a grown man to think safety (especially of children) is uncool?

        Takes just one slipup of someone, not even them, but just someone in traffic, and he will never forgive himself his shitty attitude.

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          It’s weird. I mountainbike my whole life, i feel super weird not wearing a helmet. I wear a full face helmet on every trail. I ride sometimes on a lift where one of the best riders in europe practices. He wears a helmet from the car to the lift. But somehow he thinks he’s too good to wear a helmet. I often see people with child seat on their bicycles and the children wear helmets and the parents don’t. Where the hell is the logic there. If you ever drop on your head, your child sits in a puddle of your blood and waits until someone finds them?

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      2 days ago

      It’s always fun when a relative admits they don’t care about your child’s safety.

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        13 hours ago

        They also didn’t like the name, among not liking much of anything about my entire life. No contact for the last decade has been such a breath of fresh air.