I’m in the middle of a divorce.

uhh… We’re completely different people. Physical intimacy is really important to her, and I’m newly discovered asexual. I mean, I was always uncomfortable with sex, but I never realized how. I thought I had some kind of sex anxiety or something, but that’s not it. So I can’t provide what she needs and she can’t provide what I need.

Also, I’m kind of feminine and submissive in most aspects in life, and she prefers a more confident, in charge kind of guy.