• Soup@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I’m countering your anecdotal evidence with my own, and between us I’m not the one trying to limit people to one or the other.

    You got some shit to work through that we won’t fix today but I hope you get to it eventually, genuinely.

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      2 months ago

      Jesus Christ the projection. If you think everyone who has an issue with open relationships is mentally unsound, you’re gonna have to fix the vast majority of the country.

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        2 months ago

        I said that monogamy can hide issues, and that people are totally able to be emotionally intelligent and secure while preferring to be monogamous. You’re not so good at this “reading” thing, are ya?

        And ya know what, we’ve seen plenty of examples of people being pretty shitty, on purpose or not, and could really use people getting better. There are a LOT of people who support Donald Trump, are we going to argue that sheer numbers makes them correct?

        So, yea, we do have a lot to fix. Sticking our heads in the sand and pretending nothing is wrong isn’t a solution, you coward.