I’ve noticed that when I used to see myself in pictures I’d hyper assess every little detail of it to check for passing. Now when I see myself in pictures I don’t do that anymore. Anybody else notice the same thing?
I’ve noticed that when I used to see myself in pictures I’d hyper assess every little detail of it to check for passing. Now when I see myself in pictures I don’t do that anymore. Anybody else notice the same thing?
Same, but for me, it came with a change on perspective on passing too. I live in a safe area, and I found that once I started passing, I felt invisible to the queer folk that I didn’t want to be invisible to. And that meant that I didn’t fixate on things in the way I had previously