try to come up with a reference object, like an animal or thing that means something to you both… then go on etsy and find a gift version of that reference hopefully in a color she likes. then write a short letter of appreciation and affection in a card.

Your question doesn’t have enough information.

• what is her preferred metal?
• what is your price range?
• what is her style of jewelry, and what style of clothes does she wear?
• is this an everyday piece, or something for special occasions?
• do you want to buy something with stones in it?
• where do you live, and are there shipping limitations?
• why are you looking at other options if you think she’ll like that one?