• WldFyre@lemm.ee
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    6 months ago

    I had quite a few friends who were girls who struggled with all of those things, that’s not a healthy view of womanhood

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      6 months ago

      What exactly do you mean? The properties I described were supposed to be directed at the masculine characteristics I don’t like. Did you perhaps mean that some of these are not masc-exclusive?

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        6 months ago

        Women and men both can have masculine features. I think they are saying that masculine features aren’t a male thing exclusively and arent inherently negative.

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          6 months ago

          That’s a fair point. I personally just thought that most masc stuff is very uncomfortable.

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            6 months ago

            The problem is, it depends who you ask. For me, I dont really have anyone pushing the idea of male and female stuff growing up, sort of like an atheist household might not talk about religion much.

            I’m not saying that trans stuff isnt real, but it does seem like its to a degree a reaction to societies treatment of a person.