• brbposting@sh.itjust.works
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    7 months ago

    Based on the guy’s body language, feels like a recreation of this:

    Which was apparently a woman getting help with a divorce or something (IIRC)

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      7 months ago

      This may be phase 1 of the break up. Just grind the dude down before they let him know they’re gone, so he knows exactly why they’re done.

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      7 months ago

      I agree, why don’t he broke up before being an asshole? Than why she had the trouble to print and confront instead of breaking up? And why is HE listening to ir? why don’t just break up with a girl he is not into anymore and it’s harassing him?!

      See I agree that she is being extra and crazy but this culture that man can be assholes and apologize without breaking up is also shitty. “sHe iS cRaZy”

      Break up with your SOs guys! You don’t have to go through this and don’t have to disrespect her, just break up and you can have any pussy you want!

      • AWildMimicAppears@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        7 months ago

        i would say fear of being alone

        letting go of something before you have grip on something new can be scary, esp if you know that the “new one” is just not girlfriend material, but you are selfish enough just to get your dick wet

        but i would say, if it’s too scary don’t jeopardize your existing relationship

        i would know, i left my girlfriend for my now wife of 12 years - but i was honest, confessed that i fell in love with another woman and moved out the same day to keep it as painless as possible for her, didnt want to drag it out, and didn’t want to play her, she meant something for me once. Still felt sorry for her, but i couldn’t lessen the blow anymore than that :-(

      • pukeko@lemm.ee
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        7 months ago

        Pretty sure the motivation here is more along the lines of “double tap so they don’t get up.”

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    7 months ago

    Are we not going to talk about the celebratory cupcake she has for herself when she finally dumps his cheating ass?

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      7 months ago

      List of contacts and then there’s the conversations she’s holding.
      Guy was probably unfaithful, but why would she want to do that?
      You didn’t miss much

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      7 months ago

      Right looks like instagram DM in dark mode, and left looks like a list of accounts he doesn’t follow (looks like they are a Blue rectangle with the text ‘Follow’ inside)

      potato.jpg idk I’m speculating.

      Maybe he thought he could hide it if he didn’t follow the accounts and only stuck to DM’s lol

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        That’s probably his following list being viewed by someone other than him. If he’s got it on public or friends-only, it can be viewed by other people, but there would still be blue follow buttons, since the person viewing the list isn’t following them.