I’m wondering if cats think of us kind of like how a person thinks of a friendly bull: aware that they could easily kill us, but not necessarily afraid of them; or more like a large Dalmatian: they could fuck us up, but most of us don’t really think about that unless they’re being aggressive.

I grew up with dogs and feel like I understand them a lot better than I do cats as a whole. I adopted my cat almost four years ago and I feel like I get her pretty well, but I don’t really have an idea of what she thinks about me. I also don’t really know any other cats, though I’ve gotten along with strays and friends’ cats a lot better since I got mine.

Cat tax:

  • @Lemmeenym@lemm.ee
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    403 months ago

    Making fight decisions based on “could I kill it” is a convenience of human technology. The ability to seclude ourselves during healing and medicine allowing us to avoid infection, heal faster, and heal from more serious wounds has skewed how we think about fighting. Most animals make fight decisions less on “can I kill it” and more on “how badly can it injure me”.

    Sure a human can kill a house cat, absent technology can the human do it without having the skin on an arm or leg shredded? Will the injuries be significant enough to make you unable to protect yourself from other predators? Will the injuries set up infection and kill you?

    Cats are basically the perfect land predators. Even with their small size domestic cats are the most deadly and destructive hunters on earth.

    https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/cats-kill-a-staggering-number-of-species-across-the-world/

    They are ambush predators. They are really good at evaluating prey, identifying strengths and weaknesses, figuring out how, when, and if they should attack. Cats know whether or not they can win a fight. Cats will sometimes charge into fights they can’t win, like attacking the bear, because they know that they can inflict damage and that the other animal is making a similar fight decision. The hyper aggression of a 10lb claw tornado flying toward a 200lb bear is usually enough to convince the bear that the fight isn’t worth it.

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    273 months ago

    I don’t think that they are too aware of size differences, based on plenty videos that I’ve seen of cats chasing bears away. Here’s one of them.

    Instead I guess that what triggers them to think “fuck, it could kill me!” is 99% behaviour.

    • Stamets
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      203 months ago

      To be fair, that’s a black bear and they are afraid of everything. They are pansies. They will bluff charge you and if you do nothing and just look at them they get awkward and start wandering off. You can charge them and they’ll sprint too. They just act on bear reputation but if you don’t act afraid of them they short circuit and have no idea how to respond.

      Source: Everytime as a kid we went blueberry picking we had to deal with these guys. Same with going to the landfill or hunting.

    • @idiomaddict@feddit.deOP
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      33 months ago

      Do you think the cat thinks it can win? I always assumed it was just trying to scare off a threat, but I don’t really know. My cat’s an indoor cat and though she used to growl at my neighbors (and get in between us, my heart), I didn’t think she really thought she was more of a threat than me. She also hides behind me sometimes when new people come over, so who knows if she thinks they’re only a threat to her or what.

      • @KidnappedByKitties@lemm.ee
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        63 months ago

        Cats don’t fight to take anyone down, they mostly fight to scare eachother off, as they are so fragile as beings, both in attack and defence

        Might be that they just transfer that to anything they want to get rid of.

        Had my elderly, whole life indoors cat stare down a British Mastiff (130 kg dog, bred for guard duty), and consequently train it what surfaces she was allowed on and not.

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          And if I were the bear, yeah, I probably know I could kill that little thing as soon as I got hold of it, but it’s way faster than me and it’s made of knives. It’s gonna hurt me the whole time I’m killing it. Why risk it?

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        Perhaps; I’ve also seen the opposite, a cat being considerably scared of a smaller critter (another cat), because the smaller one showed no fear.

        Or perhaps the whole idea is to avoid the fight altogether, like some sort of chicken game. Either way they don’t seem to take size into account.

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    To be honest, I don’t think your cat thinks about things the way you’re thinking about them. Your behavior has shown your cat that you’re safe, so your cat isn’t afraid of you. If you start acting aggressive or scary it will treat you like a threat and fight or flight based on what it decides in the moment, but that’s about it. It’s not thinking, “this giant ape could kill me if it wanted, I’m glad it’s my friend,” it just has a positive association with you based on your pattern of behavior.

    Also, cats social cues aren’t as obvious as dogs, but if you don’t know what you’re cats thinking, here are some clues: is your cat walking around with its tail up a lot, usually curled at the top like a little question mark? Your cat feels super happy and confident in it’s territory (AKA your house). Does it ever look at you and narrow or close it’s eyes and look away, sorta like it’s nodding off? Your cat is saying it trusts you enough to let it’s gaurd down, it’s basically a cat hug.

    Edit: cat tax.

    • @pjwestin@lemmy.world
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      113 months ago

      Oh, one more I forgot, cat-loaf! Cats put their paws underneath them to conserve heat. It also means they’re putting their primary weapons away, so they only do this when they feel happy and safe…or they’re very cold. If your cat is loafing a lot, it’s either very happy or you need to turn your heat up.

      • @EssentialCoffee@midwest.social
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        I once saw a self-proclaimed ‘cat expert’ YouTuber say that a cat loafing was a bad sign. Like a sign they were being abused and scared or some other crock of shit.

        I turned off their video when it got to that piece.

    • @Darkblue@lemmy.world
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      43 months ago

      Got to love that picture: shares an insightful post about cat psychology regarding how to tell when a cat feels safe. Follows up posting a picture of a scared/triggered cat :D

      • @pjwestin@lemmy.world
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        Nah, she’s just spazzing out over the baby bouncer she’s sitting on, it was new and she wanted to get her sent all over it.

  • @node815@lemmy.world
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    I’ve always felt that we are like clumsy giants to them lumbering on throughout the home with the great strength and dexterity to manipulate objects. In spite of all of this they can swing from loving you to down right cold shoulders on a whim!

    My obligatory cat tax. :)

  • @d00ery@lemmy.world
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    213 months ago

    When cats square up to each other they arch their backs and their hair stands on end, to me, that’s an effort to make themselves look bigger. Therefore they know bigger == more dangerous.

    Cat tax:

  • @CitizenKong@lemmy.world
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    183 months ago

    They use the same communicative signals with us as with their young. To cats, we are overgrown, clumsy kittens that never learn to hunt but know a mysterious way to get food.

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    143 months ago

    My Izzy (cat tax:)

    Isn’t even slightly afraid of me; I’m her favorite sleeping surface, she doesn’t hesitate to climb up on me, step on the most sensitive giblets she can reach, curl up and take a nap. I’m pretty sure she does know how much bigger I am than her, but she doesn’t seem to let it bother her. She’s not even afraid of getting stepped on, judging by how much she likes being underfoot.

  • @Hadriscus@lemm.ee
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    143 months ago

    I remember reading on the old site that cats saw us humans as “big, neutral cats”.

    • skye
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      93 months ago

      i heard this too lol

      specifically i heard that they see us as incompetent cats and want to take care of us x3

    • @frezik@midwest.social
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      The trouble I have with this idea is that adult cats meow at us. They don’t do that in the wild with each other. Kittens do it to get mom’s attention, but not adult cats. They mostly communicate with body language.

      • @Hadriscus@lemm.ee
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        Yea that’s right, except kitten at their mothers. Perhaps they see us as caretakers, surrogate mothers ?

  • amio
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    Cats can be pretty enigmatic and have a lot of individual differences in personality. At least size can’t be the whole picture, based on tiny tiny kittens squeaking terror into the hearts of giant four-ton beastly hounds, bears, what have you.

    Maybe we humans are just size queens, as nothing stops a chihuahua or something from doing the same.

    Some people have suggested that cats get to see you as a “pack member” - dead birds and mice and stuff are gifts because you’re just too incompetent at this hunting stuff, so they graciously help you out.

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠
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    73 months ago

    My wife and I adopted a kitten when we got engaged. And up until we had a baby a few years later, that cat 100% thought it was going to grow up to be like us.

  • @jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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    63 months ago

    I always think of my cat as a lovable idiot little brother. Sometimes he wants to be like me. Sometimes he thinks I’m a huge idiot and wants to go his own way.

  • @Vej@lemm.ee
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    43 months ago

    My cat makes up for it by sitting on my shoulders. I specifically have several canvas or thick jackets I wear around the house to protect me from his claws (we do trim them) because he just hops on me like a Taxi.