This might because I have more confidence in myself now and the act is now being done using the correct parts. I’m just surprised how much my needs have increase because before surgery I was meh to sex.

  • @SamanthaLie@lemmy.worldOP
    5•8 months ago

    Oh trust me I am at the point where the swelling has gone down and the sutures are all most gone and its amazing how normal it looks. In a year you wouldn’t even know. I will say pictures on line are usually of people early on and is a little miss leading of how everything will look in the end.

    • Franzia
      3•8 months ago

      pictures on line are usually of people early on and is a little miss leading of how everything will look in the end.

      I spent so much time looking for more normal pictures of a post-op vagina. Someone in a discord I’m in shared theirs and it had me ecstatic. I doubt any of this was necessary, if I have the dysphoria I’m probably gonna do it anyways right? 🤷‍♀️ Thanks for saying this. I can’t wait, I’m so excited.

    • @miss_brainfart@lemmy.ml
      3•8 months ago

      If I understand it correctly, it’s also positioned where even the fun button is roughly where a cis woman would have hers. Like, again… that’s some serious attention to detail I believe is incredibly appreciated by everyone who undergoes this surgery, isn’t it?

        • @miss_brainfart@lemmy.ml
          3•8 months ago

          I guess I was under the impression that there wasn’t that much thought put into it, for whatever reason. But I’m both relieved and excited to learn otherwise.

            • @miss_brainfart@lemmy.ml
              1•8 months ago

              That’s really kind of you. There’s one thing, actually, I’ve read that you have to have proper hair removal beforehand, at least on the skin they intend to draft?

              Does make sense, I guess

              • @SamanthaLie@lemmy.worldOP
                3•8 months ago

                It is highly recommended you get hair removal. The surgeon you get with will have a recommendation for the exact location that needs hair removed from. That being said the Crane Center I went though will tell you if there is reasons you can’t they can still preform the surgery, you will just have more chance of infection and well hair inside.