Is there anywhere I can look for information that isn’t either medical as fuck, or fetish shit. I just want to know stuff like how does sex work? Both pre and post op

  • Anne Kitsune
    19•11 months ago

    Basically, it depends a lot and varies from people to people. I heard several stories which I can tldr here, all for pre-op on hrt:

    1. libido might go up or down
    2. who you are attracted to might change or not
    3. it might become harder to maintain erections and have orgasm
    4. some types of stimulations might become more effective (vibrator, rapid small strokes) while others might become less (slow long strokes)
    5. you might or might not need to rely more on feelings to reach orgasm rather than physical feelings

    for me, pre op: 1. no change. 2. more open minded but still mostly into woman. lost some kinks I had before. 3. yes 4. yes. 5. always has been, even before hrt.

    hope this helps

    • Vlaxtocia [she/her]
      OP
      4•11 months ago

      Like, dumb question maybe, but do you orgasm more like a woman on hrt? Or is it still a one and done deal?

      • Anne Kitsune
        5•11 months ago

        The feeling is a little bit different, but I can’t say currently. I never had motivation to continue after the first one yet

      • @flora_explora@beehaw.org
        4•11 months ago

        Well, after 3 years on HRT it feels very different for me. Not so much “one and done deal”, maybe more like cis women but who knows. (I’m pre/non-op)