Delilah (She/Her)

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Cake day: June 21st, 2023

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  • I was 20 whole ass years old before it conceptually clicked for me that gender and sex are independent. Like yeah, I heard they were different things, but actually understanding the difference was something else entirely. And if being rudely awakened to the concept of “sexual dimorphism” was biting into the sour fruit of awareness, awakening to the fragility of that divide and the flexibility of the wider world was like biting into the ambrosia of “shit gets better”















  • I used to use the mens bathrooms an use the urinals standing while wearing a skirt early in my social transition. My threshold for stress is several orders of magnitude higher so getting right gendered then having to miscorrect them over the phone is no biggie. Well, compared to making the phone call to begin with because I’m an autistic little chicken lol