Delilah (She/Her)

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Cake day: June 21st, 2023

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  • Delilah (She/Her)toFemcel Memesfree maid
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    2 days ago

    I have no use for a maid who can’t clean. You could at least help me fold the laundry ffs. Like I say every time one of my friends tries to pull the “you’re a guest in my house sit your arse down” line: Many hands make light work.









  • What do you mean by skin deep?

    Not of the mind. That a woman was a woman because she had a woman’s body and a man a man by the same rule. That if you stripped that away then what you’re left with wouldn’t really change from man to woman. And by the same token there was nothing you could do to change which body you were given. That gender was body and body was gender and nothing ran beneth the skin.

    I should note that I’m… not exactly agender, but going by inate sense of gender I might as well be. I call it Gender CIPA, because I’m immune to the pain of gender dysphoria even though its still killing me, or bad gender interoception because like a lot of other things including hunger and temperature my body is too autistic to tell me when something’s wrong in that department.



  • I was 20 whole ass years old before it conceptually clicked for me that gender and sex are independent. Like yeah, I heard they were different things, but actually understanding the difference was something else entirely. And if being rudely awakened to the concept of “sexual dimorphism” was biting into the sour fruit of awareness, awakening to the fragility of that divide and the flexibility of the wider world was like biting into the ambrosia of “shit gets better”