Squished Fly (she/they)

Hey you. Yes, you reading this. You are cute!

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Cake day: February 28th, 2024

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  • Squished Fly (she/they)toTransFuta is a slur and shouldn't be used.
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    28 days ago

    Probably a hot take but I disagree, it’s the same issue as the whole “trap is a slur” situation that I also disagree with.

    The issue is that, if the word is used against a trans woman without bottom surgery, it’s a term that might not fit or be appropriate. With trap, it’s just straight up misgendering, but it might fit someone who still identifies as male. With futa, (if I underatand your point) it might carry a lot of sexual meaning with it which could be inappropriate.

    It’s an issue with “who uses the word to describe who”, and therefore isn’t in my eyes a slur.

    Edit: clarification







  • Squished Fly (she/they)toFemcel Memesconfession
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    2 months ago

    I must confess, I’m… Well I’m in some sort of Ace and kinda Aro relationship so I still yearn for someone to kiss me (lucky me that it’s an open relationship but I’m not gonna find anyone who wants to kiss me)

    !my gf does sometimes play with my tits tho and it’s the fucking best feeling ever!<

    Edit: spelling


  • I’m actually generally scared of the fact that the entire world seems to wander more into right-wing conservatism…

    My main hope is that parties like the AfD, the FPÖ (right-wing extremist party that won the election in Austria), Trump, … will see things like gender identity as more of a side issue in the world and not doing anything, neither good nor bad because they have “better” things to do. I have no clue how gender identity even became a political issue in the first place but it really needs to stop





  • I’m definitely not cute no matter what drug yall are on.

    Yes you are. I don’t know you personally or know how you look like but I still know that you are. Being cute isn’t a measure of physical appearance, but a combo of everything that makes you be yourself. No matter what you feel is true about yourself, there are people out there that will like you for who you are and will think of you as cute, be it in appearance, personality, interests, or whatever (and all of that even without drugs).

    and i need recreational drugs.

    Please be careful… You don’t seem to be in the best state of mind right now and irresponsible/consistent drug use (especially in a hard time) can easily lead into addiction but you probably already know that anyways. Please, for your own sake, try to take care of yourself.