Well. I thought I was cis with a trans spouse and lots of trans friends until, like, the beginning of March.

I ordered a binder. I’m around a 32G size and I’ve been getting in better shape, really liking muscle instead of my body being so soft, so why not? Most sports bras are a fuckin joke on a G cup anyway.

I really liked all the pics on the binder site! I love how these models look in binders, but also… Everything else? I start telling my wife how much I wish I could only wear my feminine features for special occasions and femininity was put on me like beautiful leg irons made of solid gold because doesn’t everyone feel like that hahaha- 😳

So I’m now really anxiously waiting for my binder and thinking a lot and have no idea what I’m doing!

But I am lucky as hell in plenty of way. I work from home, and my wife transitioned after we got married so 1) we’ve done this together before! 2) our attraction exists outside of gender, that’s the best way I can put it. I have a unique kind of privilege I know most people don’t get.

This is the first time I’ve cohesively said all that, and I feel so light… thank you so much for this question 💜