mrow sso im amab and am liike,

i id as both transmasc and transfem, cuz i oscillate around androgyny, but i like being a boy (in like a trans boy way not a cis man way)

i also id HEAVILY w cats (sorry for caps ><) so like theyres that ig. i i sometimes get stuff that says i either havd to be a girl cuz im amab, or i have to be enby and use theythem, or im just a dumb cis boy chasing clout and and just uwaaa ;-;

im not very comfortable reading about alot of transfem mtf stuff esp around like body tips and idk as well as just hrt in general with both t and e mrowrr and i just cant handle it ><< i think bc of ll the times people hav told me i need to and its its bad

also cuz im a trans catboy people r like ur a furry or ur a therian , which… i i dont quite fit there eitherrrr >~<

is all this just the usual imposter syndrom plus heavy socual anxiety or or am i doing sonething wrong?

in need of advice and probably hugs aswell, max ur local friendly catboy who just wan friends ><<

thankyouuuz vermuch, sorry for the textdump ><

  • cowboycrustation [he/him]MEnglish
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    8 months ago

    I didn’t interpert it as you saying trans men aren’t men, just that all trans men ascribe to a certain form of masculinity. There are trans men who are soft twinks and paint their nails, and there are trans men who are bodybuilders and go hunting, and many who are both or neither, just like with cis men. There are trans men who are sweet and kind and there are trans men who are misogynistic assholes (see: Buck Angel).

    Also, didn’t mean to assume you were non-binary. My bad.

    Is the word you’re looking for demiboy, femboy, softboy, gender fluid, or something along those lines? There’s an LGBTQ wiki that has a list of all those specialty terms, specific identities, and sexualities, which might be helpful. You’re also under no obligation to label your gender identity, if that’s what you prefer.

    https://lgbtqia.fandom.com/wiki/Category:Gender_identity

    • maxOPEnglish
      2·
      8 months ago

      oh i didnt mean to say that sorryz ><

      mrow i think softboy and femboy describe me, although i think catboy is best for me mrrp >w<

      thank u lots for the help an advice <33