After 33 years and four children, Baby Boomers Marta and Octavian Dragos say they feel trapped in what was once their dream home in El Cerrito, California.

Both over 70, the Dragos are empty nesters, and like many of their generation, they’re trying to figure out how to downsize from their 3,000-square-foot, five-bedroom home.

“We are here in a huge house with no family nearby, trying to make a wise decision, both financially and for our well-being,” said Dragos, a retired teacher.

But selling and downsizing isn’t easy, appealing or even financially advantageous for many homeowners like the Dragos family.

Many Boomers whose homes have surged in value now face massive capital gains tax bills when they sell. This is a kind of tax on the profit you make when selling an investment or an asset, like a home, that has increased in value.

Plus, smaller homes or apartments in the neighborhoods they’ve come to love are rare. And with current prices and mortgage rates so high, there is often a negligible cost difference between their current home and a smaller one.

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    Aww these poor Boomers just made too much money on their homes and now they have to pay some taxes if they want to sell for huge profits. Boo fucking hoo.

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      While also taking away starter homes.

      What the fuck am I supposed to live in?

      I’m sick and fucking tired of moving from rented basement, to rented attic, to basement, to garage… Etc… every 2 goddamn years I have to move. I’m almost 40, never going to be married, and stuck renting absolute overpriced shit. I’m so over it.

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        Not that I don’t emphasize with your struggle - I just want to point out that there are people stuck in those “starter homes” with 5 or more kids who could really benefit from a 5 bedroom upgrade because they’re at a point in their lives where they can afford it and they need it. The housing crisis we’re living through produces victims up and down the income ladder.

        Also this whole problem can be traced back to our absurd zoning laws blanketing most of California and the US. Still the boomers’ fault, but not for decisions they’re making today. Most of them are screwed right along with the rest of us. :(

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      And with current prices and mortgage rates so high, there is often a negligible cost difference between their current home and a smaller one.

      Is this accurate? I’m having a hard time believing it, but if it is true, then they need all cash to buy a smaller home. Downsizing shouldn’t be a money-losing proposition, otherwise there would be 0 interest in doing it.

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        The argument is that these people will sell their really large house then pay the same amount they earn on a smaller condo. This is going to be very much context dependent and frankly I don’t buy this as a problem for most people.

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        As you get older, you may no longer find it worth keeping up a larger house. It’s not just repairs, but furnishing and decorating and cleaning and insurance and taxes

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    Article is lying by omission

    The only way they pay cap gains is if this is a second house

    Also must be nice to be able to afford a 3000 sq ft home on a retired teachers salary…fuck these ppl honestly.

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      The only way they pay cap gains is if this is a second house

      Not the only way. There are several different ways you might have to pay cap gains on a home that isn’t a second home.

      But for the article its likely this way they have to pay:

      “Both the IRS and FTB provide a capital gains tax break for home sellers who meet certain conditions. The maximum amount of capital gain that can be excluded is $250,000 for single filers or $500,000 for a married couple filing jointly.” source

      From OPs article:

      “The taxable gain of $1.4 million at 20% would mean those homeowners are facing a $280,000 tax bill. In a state like California with additional tax, the overall payment would be over $450,000.”

      They bought the house at $100k, and are walking away after taxes with $1.55m. Boo hoo? They’re saying they get a big tax bill because of inflation, but they’re also able to sell their house for 19x what they bought if for for similar reasons. If they want to sell it to me for $600k and have zero cap gains taxes, I’ll take them up on that offer.

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        They also spent years reaping the lower taxes from prop 13 which saw their property taxes only raise by a max of 2% per year.

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        It’s truly an insane housing market, but can they even afford to downsize? I have no way of judging the cost there, but certainly here there is less than $450k difference between a typical house and a 2-3 bedroom condo. Since ts the land that scarce, smaller places go up in value along with the larger, so you never know.

        In a much lower cost of living area, when my Mom downsized from the big house I grew up in, she both took a sizeable gain and yet still had to take a mortgage to buy a 2 bedroom condo to replace it

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    Yeah no sympathy for large taxes on massive capital gains. Especially capital gains from the massive increase in housing costs

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      Seriously, wtf are they whining about. “If I subtract the money we paid from the current market value of our house we get such a nice number, but now we have to lose 14% of that 😭😭😭😭”

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    So they pay those taxes with the gains from the sale? What’s the fucking problem?

    But unless this is a 2nd home, I don’t think they’ll pay anything unless it’s over some high amount.

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      Ya to me this sounds more like people complaining they aren’t making as much money as they want to?

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      If they’re in California, they might have gains of over a million dollars. The exemption cuts off at $500k of total gains; anything beyond that has to have taxes paid.

      So they’re whining about paying taxes on a million dollar capital gain. They can go fuck themselves.

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        Reminds me of when I was in college in business classes and some would make arguments that raising taxes would cause people not to open a business.

        We used to argue around the idea that if someone opened a business, made a million dollars and stood to keep $600k of it rather than $700k of it, then somehow that still net profit means less profit therefore they won’t do it? Genius thought process some people have.

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      It reminds me of the people afraid to get a raise because they think going into the next tax bracket means they make less money.

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    Maybe they should just move to a lower cost of living area, away from where they’ve lived their whole life? You know, like they’ve been telling their kids and grandkids they need to do to make ends meet.

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    The entire argument comes down to “oh, those poor people, they have to pay their fair share of taxes on the huge amount of equity they’ve just earned”. Seriously, the bias is disgusting.

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      Equity isn’t money in your pocket, though, and just because the house is suddenly worth $1.5 million on paper doesn’t mean they have extra money to pay their tax bill.

      I know lots of people are bitter about the housing market but I don’t think it’s the fault of people who bought a home and just want to live in it. The people (or corporations) who buy homes as investment properties or to flip them are probably more worthy of anger.

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        I think you just argued against home ownership. The point in the equity is that it has a sustained value but is also non-fungible. The moment they sell the house, they will have all that cash to pay that tax bill. If they turn that equity into new equity (i.e sell one house and buy another) then they won’t pay a single cent unless their earnings are greater than $500,000.

        Also the people in the article DO NOT WANT TO LIVE THERE ANYMORE but will not sell to a family who does want to live there because they don’t want to pay a little bit of taxes. And people wonder why everyone hates Boomers.

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        They took the worse couple in the article. They have the house since the 90s. They will pocket a big fat check, and they are angry that they have to pay taxes on that.

        Cry me a river.

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        Don’t have the money to pay the tax bill? Show me that math.

        You buy a house for 300k, sell for 700k, you made 500k, that’s 15% tax filed jointly on long-term property. But wait! There’s more! You get to exclude the first 250k if it’s your primary residence! So you’re paying 15% on 250k. $37,500. Which is substantially less than income taxes.

        They just sold the house and (assuming it was paid off) have 700k (less realtors fees, etc.) and absolutely could pay the tax. Even if it wasn’t paid off, the capital gains would be reduced and they would owe less money. We’ve moved and sold 2 homes in the last 20 years, made capital gains on each sale, and paid the appropriate taxes because we aren’t idiots and didn’t piss the money away.

        So tell me again how they don’t have the “extra money to pay their tax bill”?

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        The article is explicitly about capital gains. It’s not like they have to pay the tax before they sell it. Use the proceeds from selling to pay the tax. That’s the whole point.

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        When they sell the asset, they need to pay the tax. Conveniently, at that point the sale provides the money from such the taxes should be paid.

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    Oh, no, boomers have to pay taxes on the MASSIVE gains on their cheaply purchased houses now worth millions. Cry me a river.

    They already get to exclude $250,000 of increase (or $500,000 if married filing jointly). So a married couple selling a house they bought for $50k and sold for $550,000 pays no taxes at all!

    So boomers need to shut the hell up.

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      So if you are ok leaving this tax law in the 90s let’s leave minimum wage there too. Can’t have it one way, all pay and taxes should be changed as decades move on. You will be in the same predicament 30 years from now.

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        A half million in tax free capital gains isn’t enough for you? It was already too high in the 90s.

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        So if you are ok leaving this tax law in the 90s let’s leave minimum wage there too.

        Federal Minimum wage even today ($7.25) means living $81 above the poverty line of $14,891.

        Example of a home seller in the article they are walking away with $1.55m after all taxes paid.

        These are not the same.

        Can’t have it one way

        And why not?

        all pay and taxes should be changed as decades move on.

        I do agree with this statement. Corporations are taxed way too low, and those at the bottom of the income ladder are subject to the highest taxation relative to their assets needed for basic living.

        You will be in the same predicament 30 years from now.

        $1.55m in my pocket after all taxes paid from selling a home would be a wonderful predicament to be in.

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        Minimum wage is an absolute measure: a fixed amount not pegged to inflation. Taxes are a percentage, a relative value that adapts to inflation.

        I’m all for a relative measure for the minimum wage.

        Also, in this scenario the people would be left with $1,620,000 after selling their house, which hardly leaves them without options. I get that they want to stay in that same neighborhood. But the problem they are facing is an enviable one for many less fortunate people.

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        Prop 13 made it so their taxes did not change as the decades moved on. Their property was taxed much closer to that $100k value they bought their house than the current ~$2 million it is worth. They should have been paying about $19k each year in property taxes. Instead they were paying less than 1/10th that.

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          No. What he was failing to understand was that a number of people wind up in a situation where going from the bigger home to the smaller home (after it’s all said said and done) they just barely break even. If they are only going to break even then why down size? Where’s the benefit? Who would say “hey I have an idea, let’s sell this big house, buy that smaller house, and not have extra cash after it’s done “. No one is taking that deal.

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            Can you explain why a big home would sell for the same/near the same price as a small home in any given location? If that were a reality, then why doesn’t everyone live in a 5 bedroom, 3000sqft home like these people?

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    Article title should be “people who treated a basic need as an investment crying that they cannot realize the overinflated value of their investment without becoming homeless”. 🙄

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      One example given in the article shows the sellers would walk away with $1.55m after all taxes paid. I’m sure many would love to be so homeless.

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        The article also considers people buying a new place instead of renting. Yeah rent has also spiked, but that $1.5m still pays for 25 years of renting a condo for $5,000/month.

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          Also from the article:

          “Both over 70, the Dragos are empty nesters”

          So the essentially have rent paid for until they are 95 or 104 just from the sale of their house.

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            I mean how are they going to make it by on their pension and social security??? It’s just not fair! /s

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    A 3000 sqft house in CA? Going to guess they would be making a ton off that. Couple that with the years and years of property taxes being taxed at below the appraised value and I am going to say I don’t have much sympathy.

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      We bought our 1800 sqft house in Sacramento for almost 600k 2 years ago, when it was worth less than half that the last time it was appraised in 2008. We were at least fortunate enough to get a 30 year loan at 3.3% but we will NEVER see property taxes as low as many of our neighbors who have lived there for 20+ years.

      My parents are selling their house in a couple of years in order to move closer to us. They’ll easily get over a million for it and then they’ll turn around and use that money to buy a house for 500k in cash. Yeah, they’ll take a hit in taxes but they will still have plenty left for buying the new house outright (so no mortgage), plus doing some additional renovations that my dad wants to do in order to have his dream kitchen.

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    They were empty nesters 10 and 20 years ago too most likely. They got greedy and now they don’t want to pay tax on the absurd increase in value of their house?

    Cry me a river. The only feelings this should spark in anybody reading it is anger and hatred. Greedy, repulsive people.

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      It’s fine to be frustrated with the housing market but it seems like you’re directing that frustration at these people as if they’re responsible for it and that’s not really the case. You’re making a lot of assumptions about their motivations that don’t seem fair to me. Get angry at real estate investors, lobbyists, and politicians, not two random people trying to sell their house.

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        I appreciate the “all sides of the conversation” approach, but their gripe is with having to pay taxes on completely bonkers returns. That’s not a surprise for anyone.

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          That’s not what the article says.

          Sure, they’d make a lot of money selling their house. But if it’s your only residence, you can’t just sell your house unless you’re willing to move away from your home, potentially any remaining family, etc. Places a lot of people have lived for generations.

          Because you have to buy another home. And the article states that mortgage rates are ridiculous, house prices are very high for all homes, they simply can’t find smaller homes in a lot of cases because builders are primary building huge houses, and the capital gains tax is impacting single-family houses in a way it wasn’t designed for. They are essentially trying to downsize and coming out worse or the same as if they stayed in too large of a house.

          This is bad for everyone: people can’t downsize, people who want/need larger homes can’t find any on the market, builders continue to think big houses are what people want and keep only building them, people can’t move into/out of neighborhoods causing them to stagnate, etc.

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        The reason they’ve earned some frustration is not because they bought a house in SoCal the 90s. The reason they’ve earned some frustration is because after living in a house in SoCal for 33 years and raising four children in it, they felt like they wouldn’t earn “enough” money from reselling it. This feeling of entitlement was so strong that they complained to an international news corporation about it.

        Even if they didn’t create the unjust system, they clearly benefit from it and will do whatever it takes to get what they consider to be their piece of the pie. They want the real estate system to work as designed-- because how else would they get their money?

        The thing that really gets me is that one of them is a retired teacher. He dedicated his life to helping young people. He’s got to be educated enough to do some self-reflection. But this mindset that he has about real estate and profit is destroying the world for the same exact people he’s worked so hard to help.

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        You vastly misunderstood what I was talking about. They are greedy. They want to realize those gains and not pay taxes. Greed. This has nothing to do with anything else. They were happy to see the value go up as high as possible until they realized they need to pay their fair share. I’m angry at them for being greedy.

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        _ directing that frustration at these people as if they’re responsible for it_

        Yeah… their voting policies over the years, they are.

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        Nope. They got greedy by staying in that house for as long as possible to maximize their gains, and by then bitching about taxes.

        Try harder next time.

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    This is nonsense. The tax-free allowance is massive and they’re only required to pay tax on all the free money, nothing they actually earned.

    If there was 100% capital gains tax on all domestic property, we wouldn’t have all that free money pushing up the cost of housing for everyone.

    Most homeowners don’t have to pay capital gains on their home when they sell. Thanks to tax legislation from the ’90s, a gain of up to $250,000 for a single tax filer or $500,000 for a couple filing jointly is exempt from tax. That’s providing the sale is of the homeowner’s primary residence and that they meet other requirements such as living in the property for two of the past five years.

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    Otherwise known as: boomers wanting to downsize are making a whole bunch of cash with which to do it and are finally paying a fair portion of their net worth.

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      Awwwe, are these people crying in realized gains? Boo fucking hoo.

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    Whatever. They just don’t want to pay anything. Probably bitch about the real estate agent fees, too. They’re only trapped by their own greed.

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    Guess they are using the alternate definition of trapped. They of course could rent the house and use the rent money to rent/buy thier new place and probably have a little profit at the same time.

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        They’re happy to say that younger folks should be okay with it, but as soon as they’re faced with it, it’s suddenly a tragedy?

        Horse shit. Fuck anyone gaslighting the value of housing security. I hope their home value turns to dust.

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          The only thing that really changes is issues are more likely to be dealt with quickly since they might affect the landlord as much as the tenant.

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    Most homeowners don’t have to pay capital gains on their home when they sell. Thanks to tax legislation from the ’90s, a gain of up to $250,000 for a single tax filer or $500,000 for a couple filing jointly is exempt from tax. That’s providing the sale is of the homeowner’s primary residence and that they meet other requirements such as living in the property for two of the past five years.

    That means if a couple bought a median priced home in 1987 for $100,000 and they’ve lived there as their primary residence and are selling it today for $550,000, the $450,000 gain from that investment is not taxed because it falls under the $500,000 exclusion to capital gains taxes.

    However, if those same $100,000 homebuyers lived for 37 years in an area that has seen enormous growth in home values — as is the case for many parts of California — and their home now sells for $2 million dollars, that’s nearly $1.9 million in profit, of which only $500,000 is excluded from taxes.

    A normal.person would still be ecstatic…

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      Not to mention that the capital gains tax ranges from 10%-20% depending on income, so of the $1.4 million in taxable gains they’re only paying $140,00-$280,000 dollars, meaning after they sell the house they still get $1.7 million profit.

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        Yep, and both over 70, so it’s not like they’re paying a lot in taxes.

        They’re just greedy boomers that don’t want to pay taxes, nothing new or surprising

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      The issue is with the tax and high costs of homes, they break even or worse when downsizing. They aren’t realizing that profit from selling because they are trying to buy another, smaller house.

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        If their new house is less than a million, they’re fine…

        Very few people “downsize” to a million dollar property.

        Hell, they get $500k before any tax

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      But they contributed everything and the public services that their taxes fund contributed nothing whatsoever, ever, never, not once. How dare communism reach into their pockets at their old age. They’re just trying to do the right thing, don’t you know?

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      Yeah. I’m not hating on these people, but they would have $1.4 million in taxable income, and 37% would be owed as taxes, leading them around 900k. If they planned it over a few years they could actually avoid some of that.

      So I don’t know their situation, but walking away with $882k doesn’t leave you without options.

      Edit: I forgot that you only pay the normal income rate on assets held for a short period, so they would have $1,620,000 after taxes.