OpenAI: 'We also don’t allow GPTs dedicated to fostering romantic companionship'

ChatGPT’s new AI store is struggling to keep a lid on all the AI girlfriends::OpenAI: ‘We also don’t allow GPTs dedicated to fostering romantic companionship’

  • TheDoctorDonna@lemmy.worldEnglish
    37·
    10 months ago

    If you don’t want to be called an incel, don’t blame your loneliness and lack of sex on anyone else. Everyone is lonely, it’s nobody’s fault unless you want to blame society as a whole which will get you nowhere. Continue to grow as a human and don’t stop trying to find new avenues of reaching out to others.

    And most importantly, never expect someone to like you in any way, no one is obligated to you.

    • CADmonkey@lemmy.worldEnglish
      21·
      10 months ago

      You guys are missing my point. Im not talking about incels, I’m talking about people who just call all lonely guys incels. The way everyone is happily downvoting me when I say this are proving me right.

          • TheDoctorDonna@lemmy.worldEnglish
            2·
            10 months ago

            I am sorry you had to experience that, but it is very insightful and aware to know that your trauma would affect the perception. Most would gloss over that.

            Not saying this about you specifically ( I don’t know if you have things about you that you don’t like), but people who have things they don’t like about themselves also have a tendency to see criticism and insults about that particular thing where there are none. Like I used to be really over weight, so anytime anyone made jokes about something being large or about pigs or cows, I would internalize that and assume it was about my fatness because I hated that about myself.

      • GilgameshCatBeard@lemmy.caEnglish
        5·
        10 months ago

        Incels are called incels. Lonely guys are lonely guys. If you’re being called an incel, there’s a reason.

      • Nudding@lemmy.worldEnglish
        1·
        10 months ago

        We are all talking about incels. Nobody here has a problem with lonely guys. I think you’re missing everyone else’s point.

    • Facebones@reddthat.comEnglish
      7·
      10 months ago

      You really swung for the fences over somebody saying “calling all lonely men incels are bad.”

      You ABSOLUTELY proved his point, this comment was so damn extra in relation to o what you replied to.

      • TheDoctorDonna@lemmy.worldEnglish
        1·
        10 months ago

        I don’t mean to put myself in the place of anything - I just meant that the better course of action is to find improvement rather than fault. It’s a situation where being able to put the blame on something does nothing to improve the situation. We’re lonely because there are too many people is all.

        There’s a lot of people at fault for things in my life and if I worried about blaming them, I wouldn’t have had the time to get educated and grow as a human so that I could move past the things they are at fault, I was just trying to broaden that idea into something more general.