• EveryMuffinIsNowEncrypted
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    11
    ·
    9 months ago

    If you have to put a trigger warning in the title, please mark this as NSFW so people have a choice as to see when they’re scrolling. Speaking from personal experience…

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      25
      ·
      9 months ago

      Being reminded of your birth gender is worse than a transphobic slur because it’s more invalidating. You want to be your AGAB even less than you want to be trans. I can own being any T-slur, but I can never own being a man. I would rather be a f****t than pretend that I’m straight.