• TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      Being reminded of your birth gender is worse than a transphobic slur because it’s more invalidating. You want to be your AGAB even less than you want to be trans. I can own being any T-slur, but I can never own being a man. I would rather be a f****t than pretend that I’m straight.