• usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca
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    1 year ago

    Straight guy here who often just enjoys the memes.

    Maybe it’s because I’m straight, but my assumption was that bottoms would be more rare than tops. I’m guessing that’s not true?

    • Riven@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      1 year ago

      I thought that too but all I keep coming across while online is that tops are rarer. I wonder why.

    • jol@discuss.tchncs.de
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      1 year ago

      In theory it’s 50:50, but it’s also a spetrum. Most guys are somewhat versatile, with a preference to one side. Also depends on the mood and preference changes thought your life as you experience different things. I personally have different tastes for bottoms and for tops, and my preference can change daily.

      There are always urban myths that this city or that city has way more tops or bottoms, but there hasn’t been are proper science done on that, just silly surveys.