I am still looking for help. I mostly am looking for light-touch moderation (i.e. Giving people room to express themselves, even if it’s not a happy discussion, and stepping in only when absolutely necessary).

As far as the BDSM specific element goes, since you are a bit newer to the kink/interest in general, would you be willing to expand on any of the following safety topics to help give me a better feel with your engagement with it? There are a lot of ways that various things can go wrong with bdsm, and while this will mostly be a porn community, discussion is bound to happen and we may have to step in to give more experienced advice.

1. What is the primary distinguishing factor between SSC and RACK, and where would each one apply?

2. What types of physical harm do riggers (shibari) have to avoid, and what tools and techniques would they use to avoid them? (At least one physical tool and one process)

3. Instead of using a “safe word” like pineapple or eggplant, what is generally considered a better system?