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Feminine Boys - Blåhaj Lemmy
lemmy.blahaj.zoneThis is an alternate version of the Feminine Boys community on Reddit. Like that
one it is an SFW text based community for the discussion on the Femboy
experience.
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### Rules: 1. No image posts. This is a text based discussion community so posts
can’t contain an image (exception for Thumbnails of articles which may be
linked). Images can be included in post body if they add context to the
discussion or help describe something. Just remember this community’s primary
purpose is text based discussion. (This also applies to comments). 2. No NSFW
content. Don’t engage in discussions of fetish or sexual content here. Sexuality
can be discussed here. Discussion of anatomy should be depersonalized. 3. No
being a creep. Don’t ask for Dates, sex, DMs, hookups, anything of a sensitive
nature like that. Do not post asking for personal information. 4. No medical
discussion.Try not to discuss medical issues as they are prone to incorrect or
misinformation. Additionally DO NOT share advice for DIY medical procedures
(this is dangerous and will earn you a permanent ban). 5. No Invalidation Gender
Identity. Specifically no calling people eggs, also known informally as egging.
No trying to insist that a femboy (or any other GNC person) must be trans due to
being GNC, it is hurtful and invalidating, makes people doubt themselves, and
for that reason can be considered a form of gaslighting and abuse. If a person
is questioning their gender you may offer them advice but you must not tell them
they are trans with any certainty. Also Rule 4 applies heavily here, do not push
people to do HRT or worse DIY-HRT. In addition to those rules there is
absolutely no homophobia or transphobia allowed in this community whatsoever. 6.
No bigotry of any kind. Absolutely no racism, sexism, ableism or any other form
of bigotry will be tolerated here. 7. No bad-faith politics. Don’t engage in
bad-faith politics here, this could include alt-right conservative politics but
also anything tankie related. We’ll know when we see it. Don’t test us. 8. Be
nice to each other. The golden rule.
A community for SFW discussion about the femboy experience. Links:
“Specifically no calling people eggs, also known informally as egging.”
What the hell is egging??
Ok yeah, I worded it a bit badly, I edited the text so it’s hopefully more clear.
Basically it’s saying they must be a girl (trans) because they dress like one. Was a popular thing to do in r/Egg_irl a while back (at the expense of the femboys featured) which is where the term egg came from and why it became known as ‘egging’.
So what is egg and more over what is gnc?
Gender non-conforming.
That makes much more sense. Here I was thinking “Guidance, Navigation, and Control”.
Egg - a transgender person that has yet to come out of their “shell”.
When a person first makes the realization that they might be transgender, it’s referred to as “cracking your egg” in the trans community.
Also, in popular culture it’s commonplace to say that a person who is in denial is “putting up walls”, so an egg is like a type of wall that completely surrounds you. Cracking your egg involves tearing down those walls.
trying to insist that a femboy (or any other GNC person) must be trans