It’s a sunny day, we’re outside, good mood, drinking a coffee. I try to strike a conversation, my gf says its too early for philosophical discussions. I tell her we can instead talk about whatever she feels like. She says she doesn’t want to talk about anything. We weirdly sit in silence for a while. I tell her it’s weird to me, we argue. Is this normal?
Some people are introverted and appreciate a little silence. Others are more extroverted and can talk all day every day. For example, I can have a nice relaxing day where I don’t utter a single word. And it’s not a problem when a couple doesn’t have anything to say at a given time. You can sit back and just enjoy your surroundings. Be in the moment, my dude.