Me (14y male from Poland) got my english teacher annoyed/disappointed after saying the word “crap”. I’m unsure if this is the right place to ask this question but is saying that word considered bad? I always thought it was pretty mild and not a big deal.
It is fairly mild and not a big deal, but most people probably wouldn’t want their 5 year old daughter saying it to their great aunt Mary.
It’s definitely not mild enough for a 14 year old to say in front of their teacher at school.
It is not an appropriate word to use when talking to a teacher, no. A “pretty mild” swearword is still a swearword.
Context matters, to your friends or friends parents, probably okay. To someone you should be showing respect like teachers, probably never going to go over well.
It was like this. I made a mistake in an excersize and said “oh crap”. Although you are right not to say that to a teacher, but saying it the way I did should be fine, right?
More the location at that point, that’s schoolyard talk not classroom at that point. But out of earshot in the school yard too haha
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It’s a little extreme but not unheard of for folks to be upset with, especially in classroom settings.
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Crap isn’t swearing.
It is a little bit. It’s not exactly not swearing
Same realm as “Dang” and “Darn”. Someone getting mad about it is just trying to tone police.
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Not sure what part of the UK you’re from, but that’s absolutely not the case (at least in the North West where I’m from).
Crap is a bit of a crude word, but I don’t know anybody who would consider it being an actual swear word. For clarity, I’m using the definition of a swear word where it’s something you’d have to censor on public air.
If someone said “dang” or “darn” around here, you’d get a raised eyebrow and everyone would just think you’re from the US because we just don’t use those words here.
but is it exactly not not swearing?
Ok maybe not, but you don’t talk about pooping in class. Crap is the same usage. It not swearing, just not applying to talk about
In the US (not UK, sorry!) It is entirely dependent on the family that raised you. In some households it’s just another word, and in others it is a curse word. In my experience the households that consider it a curse are less common.
This caught me off guard when I was roughly your age and got in trouble for it when visiting a friend. I thought it was a regular word and was scolded in front of others for it. I had no clue what was going on because nobody would tell me what word it was for a while.
I don’t know of anyone that doesn’t think of it as a very mild “bad word” in the US, and I’ve lived across most of the country. Growing up in a very permissive household can mask that, but if you look it up in the dictionary you’ll find it labeled “mildly vulgar” or something similar.
It’s a less vulgar version of shit. You wouldn’t use it in an email, but when talking it generally isn’t a big deal.
I raised my children not on the word, but the intention of the word. When they were saying “crap you” they meant “fuck you”, and once they were made aware of it they stopped (saying it in front of me, anyway lol). So be aware that people will pick up on the intention and not necessarily the word.
My brother and I kinda woke up to the ideology of intention with expletives back when we were coming out of college. We were raised not to swear, so we didn’t for the most part, but then we thought about intention and the true meaning and effect of words and we kinda decided that for us as adults who can read a room and understand intent, we didn’t care about swearing anymore. Most of our social settings it was fine and we knew when to stop for the people around us so they weren’t uncomfortable.
Try saying “merde” next time in thick French accent.
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Don’t be a jerk, there are much more effective ways of saying this.
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“It seems like there may be cultural differences between how Americans and people from the UK use the word… I know you guys want to chime in, but remember, this is a UK sub and that OP is looking for opinions from people from his country.”
People don’t react positively to gate keeping type behavior, particularly because this sub has no rules asking Americans not to participate. You have a valid point (that OP is here because they want to know the cultural norms in the country that they live in), so it’s more effective to just make that point.
BTW, I don’t know what these folks are talking about… “crap” has essentially the exact same meaning and connotation in the US as in the UK.
“You’re the English teacher, what word or words should I consider using instead?”
We used to use that word in year 4 back in the 90s. The teachers didn’t mind, and surprisingly even my super strict parents weren’t bothered by it. It’s pretty mild. I wouldn’t let a younger kid use it, but it’s okay to hear imo.
What was the context you used it in?
I think it’s outrighteous that your teacher does not take organizations like CRAP seriously, mobile phones are a real threat to yougsters and society at large and we should do something about it!
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I wouldn’t say it’s offensive or anything, its basically just a more family friendly take on ‘shit’.
Don’t they toss around the word cunt like it’s a core subject of every sentence in the UK? And your teacher is worried about crap? Lol.
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