It seems like a small thing, but the one person I’d think would ask me the most never really does

  • @orangeNgreen@lemmy.worldM
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    1410 months ago

    My wife and I try to ask each other this question every day, along with “what was your favorite part of the day.” It doesn’t always happen. But we make an honest effort.

  • AdaA
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    1110 months ago

    Daily… There is a bot in this community that asks me every day!

  • @Dave@lemmy.nz
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    910 months ago

    It seems like a small thing, but the one person I’d think would ask me the most never really does

    How often do you ask them?

    • @kennuckies@lemmy.worldOP
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      210 months ago

      I like to ask every day, but I usually just get one word answers and then sometimes they’ll ask how my day was. One comment here has a totally different perspective on that question, though, and it’s got me thinking maybe they just don’t like it.

    • hyperhearse
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      510 months ago

      pretty much this. i get asked all the time and i give the same answer. still nice to be asked how im doing but my response changes only once in a while.

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠
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    510 months ago

    Way too often.

    It’s in the past, I don’t need to have feelings about it anymore. Please don’t ask me to form an opinion about a day I’ll never think of again.

  • @shadowSprite@lemmy.world
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    510 months ago

    Just today I jokingly complained to my husband that he always asks our cats how their day was, but he never asks me how my day went. He said “well I know your day was shit, so why bother.” Checkmate.

  • @spiffy_spaceman@lemmy.world
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    310 months ago

    Same: rarely from the people who really matter to me. It’s almost always the cashier at the grocery store or the bike store. Nice people, but I don’t know if they really care what the answer is, they’re doing they’re best to be nice.

    • @kennuckies@lemmy.worldOP
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      310 months ago

      It’s so kind of you to ask! Yesterday was awesome, I’m pup sitting for my sister so I get to go on early morning walks.

      How did your day go?

      • Eggyhead
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        110 months ago

        Sorry for the late reply. I got a new job and the work load is pretty overwhelming. It’s fun, but there is a lot of prep work and very little in terms of help or remuneration on that end.

  • @moipe@lemmy.world
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    310 months ago

    I don’t check every day, but I think the bot here never forgets to ask. I don’t want to share with it though. Y’know, Skynet became self aware in 1997.