Hi I’m from Europe and unfortunately in the past few years I realized how much racism there is in the world which really messes up my mind since that concept didn’t exist for me as a kid and I thought it’s normal that people look different.

Having very pale skin and not having visited too many countries I was wondering if I might encounter any problems in America because of my skin. Can I just talk to anyone or will people reject me because of my skin? (I have blond hair too)

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    If the bright color is white, you’re probably ok. I say probably because shit is extra weird right now. As I understand it, the darker colors risk being “deported” and by deported, I mean being sent to concentration camps in other countries.

    I never would have thought the above sentences would be typed by someone in a rational frame of mind, but… here we are in 2025.

    As delightful as you sound, my advice would be to not visit us. We’re in a dark place. While I’d love to meet people like you, we don’t deserve it right now. Shame on us.

    Edit: typing is hard

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    Having any skin other than what you have is how you experience racism in America.

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      So are you saying it’s only when you have dark skin? Because I often heard it’s also the other way around that some Americans generally separate based on that, just wanna make sure.

      In some online content it seems like people with darker skin in America sometimes group together called “African-American community” and I’m not sure if they would accept you and interact normally with you when you have lighter skin

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        You’re likely gonna experience racism in some form in any community you go to where you are the minority. People are racist, not people of some specific skin color.

        So your assessment is correct, if you go to a majority black community you’re probably gonna find people racist against white people.

        But when you go to the US, white is still the majority. And if you’re not the majority, you’re mostly still a large part. Statistically, the most racism you’ll experience is everyday racism, where maybe some black people believe you’re an asshole even though you aren’t. Most of the time you’re not going to experience anything.

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        I experience racism because my surname doesn’t sound white.

        Skin color is only one factor these rascist idiots use as justification. If it ain’t one thing, it’s another.

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        Either you live in a cave in some remote mountains or this is a troll. African American community lol, light skin, it’s called being Caucasian or white . People in America are people just like everywhere else, just the same as the people where you live, they ain’t a different species, just different customs

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    depends on what you mean by “very bright skin”? It also depends very much on where in America you’re talking about.

    Remember, geographically, the US is more on par with the whole of the EU than any single country in the EU; and similarly with population size as well. You’re going to have a different experience going to CA than NY, or texas or Iowa. Or even Austin, Texas and some rural small town full of nothing but inbred rednecks in Texas. (same also for some parts of CA, if we’re being honest. There are some very republican strongholds in CA.)

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    In certain communities, you may be distrusted, for valid reasons, especially right now when people are afraid, angry and confused. By and large, it’s probably regional, and then community dependant.

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      The way you dress and carry yourself also informs the way different communities react to you. It’s not so much about fitting in as it is about not giving people red flags. Different communities have different red flags.

      That’s my perspective coming from one of the more diverse parts of the Bay Area.