So I’m not 100% sure this is the right sub for this but I couldn’t really find another sort of mod abuse sub that had actual users. I recognize that I am most certainly an asshole in this situation, but I got banned Fedibridge@lemmy.dbzer0.com for a misogynistic comment I left on a completely different sub.

imogen_underscore in that same thread made multiple death threats against me and has only received a 7 day ban. So I want to be clear here that in their eyes a misogynistic comment left on an entirely different sub is WORSE than death threats left in your own sub?

  • MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zipOP
    2·
    10 days ago

    That was just one of them. They had one or two other ones. One was hoping I got hit by a bus and the other was suffocating I think? I might have that one mixed up for something else.

    • flamingos-cant@feddit.ukEnglish
      20·
      10 days ago

      So she did, I’ll admit I missed those ones. Still, you have this still up on you account, undeleted, so I’d say YDI:

      And I would feel fairly confident that the commenter was a woman because attacking someones personality (that they don’t know at all) is typically done by women. If they don’t like something you said they tend to tell you that you have a crap personality or a tiny dick.

          • MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zipOP
            1·
            10 days ago

            Please point to where in that comment I attacked their personality? I said they were probably a woman based on them saying something else in anothe comment. That’s it.

            • flamingos-cant@feddit.ukEnglish
              12·
              10 days ago

              Oh, so when you make baseless assumptions about people it’s just you rationally arriving at a conclusion from context, but when someone else says your personality sucks based from your diatribe about women and dating, it must be because they’re an irrational, emotional wöman.

    • Norah (pup/it/she)English
      10·
      10 days ago

      You literally posted a screenshot with its pronouns, why do you have to misgender her?

        • Norah (pup/it/she)English
          9·
          10 days ago

          It’s gender neutral when you don’t know the pronouns of a person. Her pronouns are literally in its bloody display name my friend.

            • Norah (pup/it/she)English
              8·
              10 days ago

              Explain to me how that user’s pronouns are irrelevant when she’s being directly referenced by OP. I’ll wait.

              • anamethatisnt@sopuli.xyz
                3·
                10 days ago

                Are you of the opinion that the pronouns are relevant to the length of their (plural their mind you, OP and imogen_underscore) bans or that the discussion here will somehow change depending on their gender?

            • Heyting@lemmy.ml
              5·
              10 days ago

              Transphobic people regularly use they/them for binary trans people to avoid using their actual pronouns. If you know someone’s pronouns be respectful and use them.