Five minutes ago, but she said it would have to wait until later

Almost 20 years ago now, a Scottish woman that was around 10 years older than me (friend of my sister) offered me a marriage of convenience to move to Scotland and eventually get citizenship. I declined because at that point I was a dumbass that still believed South Africa had a future. Regret it to this day.

Never. Never have I met someone I think I could spend my life with. Lust sure, life no.

actually having a spouse… 36 years and counting…