he (19nb) and i (18f) plan on having sex sometime in the near future, but the only thing is i’m a virgin, so he’ll be my first.

i feel like if he loves me, he won’t care that much, but what if i end up being TERRIBLE at sex?

  • Lucky_777@lemmy.world
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    6 hours ago

    Don’t overthink this, and don’t be lazy. Treat his dick or whatever they are packing like your favorite meal. Like you’ve been on an island without food for days and need to eat.

    Confidence, communication, and participation. The most important thing IMO.

    • drbollocksOP
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      5 hours ago

      turns out he doesn’t want to bc he already had a bf :(

      next time, i’ll date a single person who wants me