• activepeople@kbin.social
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    2 years ago

    from what I understand some men feel very uncomfortable around non-family women, and don’t have a third place that doesn’t involve alcohol.

    It does seem to add a layer of complication, but perhaps that’s the point.

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      2 years ago

      yeah i can understand that. I think every group of people can feel uncomfortable around another group of people. my general stance is to let everyone create the community that they feel comfortable with. although I think that stance can be used in the wrong way, and is used to perpetrate patriarchy and toxic culture. its complicated.