my gf is dating me but she’s obsessed with dating guys. she writes love letters to them and stuff like that and acts super guilty when i end up finding out.
she even talks about dating these guys. should i break up?
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I think you should talk to her. Communication is key. If she doesn’t want to change, break up with her or at least take a break
It’s awfully suspicious that she’s acting so guilty about it. If she knew it was ok, why would she behave that way? Is she just embarrassed or GUILTY?
This could be a sign that she’s about to cheat, but I suggest you talk to her.
when she thinks I don’t know, she messages other guys.
she posts the messages in the gc that she doesn’t think I’m in anymore.
she’s barely 15 and talks about doing it w guys and dirty stuff too :(
she also barely talks to me. she used to talk 2 me a lot, she seemed in love w me. she would have all these love letters and romantic bios and status, but now it’s w the guy, it seems.
and she barely talks to me bc she’s in the gc. then, when I ask her smth to do w the guy, she acts really guilty and says something like “oh… hi…”
“Don’t worry about it 😅”
“I can’t say”
Etc.
Isn’t this the girl that was talking behind ur back and “talking to” other guys without telling you? I know you might be attached to her, but she seems to have possibly cheated on you.
Yeah, that’s suspicious and weird as hell.
Well, if you’re really 13/14, I think you’re overly focused on relationships and love. I can see how that’s the age where you take interest in such things and want to try it. But take it easy. And take care of yourselves. Society and the internet might be overly focused on love. But that’s not all there is to life. Enjoy it, do teenager stuff… You don’t really need to focus too much on love, partners and committed relationships.
You should talk about each other’s wants and needs. Whatever the case may be, talk. You could ask things like:
- What are you (each) hoping to get out the your relationship?
- What do you (each) need from each other?
- What do you (each) expect from each other?
- Where do (each) of your boundaries lie? Are they different? Do they need compromise, or something else?
I can’t read your minds and I may be miles off. But I hope this helps someone.
It depends, do you like to be in a poly-amorous relationship if yes then there is no problem, if no, then you should break up.
im fine w poly but only when ik abt it and she’s talked to me abt it
She’s gonna cheat on you soon, so better to find yourself a nice girl that wants to be with you and not torture you.
Well you might want to ask her about what each of you guys want out of the relationship.
If you don’t like how she’s acting right now but she doesn’t want to change then perhaps taking a break might be best for both of your wellbeings.
Regardless of what people online (us) tell you and suggest, ultimately it’ll be up to you and your partner. Either way best of luck!
