We get the feeling that most protectors/guardians etc are actively hostile or feel angry etc most of the time, and the person in our group who does this for us is like that sometimes. However, mostly it is emotionless or has low emotion and we were wondering if y’all/y&/you&/you experience that.

We think the reason they are like this is because it allows us to be more clear, honest and leave the extreme emotion that overwhelmed at least one of us behind.

It has gotten angry before and once very upset when something happened without their consent (it wasn’t anything big and got resolved quickly).

So yeah, feel free to let us know if y’all’d/y&'d/you&'d/you’d like.