Republican men seem massively troubled about their masculinity — and that’s literally causing death and suffering

  • Jordan Lund@lemmy.one
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    Seems to be a big deal when you start talking guns and mental health, but with all the fixations on “mass shootings”, they lose this little stat:

    https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/04/26/what-the-data-says-about-gun-deaths-in-the-u-s/

    “In 2021, the most recent year for which complete data is available, 48,830 people died from gun-related injuries in the U.S., according to the CDC. That figure includes gun murders and gun suicides, along with three less common types of gun-related deaths tracked by the CDC: those that were accidental, those that involved law enforcement and those whose circumstances could not be determined.”

    54% of those deaths were suicides. 26,368.

    (43% murder, 3% “other”, accidents, etc.)

    Also in 2021, 38,358 men committed suicide compared to 9,825 women.

    https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/suicide-data-statistics.html

    3.9:1, if almost 4x more women than men were dying for any reason, it would be a national crisis. “Something would have to be done!”

    Mental health for men? Silence.

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      I hear what you are saying but I wouldn’t even say that line about if it were women it’d be a national crisis. Time has shown again and again that society will gladly throw away a group of people without needing to devalue your words with a statement like that.

      Anyway there’s a lot of things to discuss around this.

      We can dive into the societal role of men with being encouraged to bottle up because “grown men don’t cry” and toxic masculinity.

      We can talk about rates of gun ownership between genders that is a big factor in suicide risk.

      We can unpack the issue with people not having the money for mental health resources. Which can be solved through general wage increases or through the state.

      The point is to say that instead of using a crisis to step another group of people we should be approaching these things from a point of intersectionality.

      Edit: Just to be on topic I am completely for restrictions on guns as a easier means to dealing with shootings.

      The crazy people shouting “dont take my guns” while also touting the line of “it’s a mental health isssue” without being open to addressing that problem gets me so worked up.

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      You were doing so well until you tried the “People care so much more about women’s health! Pity me!” line.

      Strange how Viagra is required to be covered by all insurance but birth control isn’t. Whose priorities are privileged there?

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        It’s not about pitying me, it’s about pitying the state of men in general, where, if the genders were reversed, it would be considered a national crisis.

        For example:

        https://universitybusiness.com/men-are-falling-behind-in-higher-ed-and-it-may-not-be-letting-up/

        Key stats:

        “Women became the majority demographic to attend college decades ago, and today, they make up almost 60% of U.S. college undergraduates.”

        (between 2017 and 2022) “male enrollment at 4-year public institutions has dropped nearly 6% more than women, according to the National Student Clearinghouse Research Center. Among all student demographics in this sector, white men experienced the sharpest decline in enrollment, falling nearly 20%.”

        “The rate at which men are graduating from 4-year institutions is 6% less than that of women, according to the National Center for Education Statistics.”

        “The Class of 2023 reported that while 68% of young men want to go to college, only 57% expect to actually attend. On the other hand, 83% of young women want to go to college, and 77% expect to go.”

        Or…

        https://www.mibluesperspectives.com/stories/health-and-wellness/male-mortality-why-men-die-earlier-than-women

        “In 2021, the average life expectancy was 73.2 years for men and 79.1 years for women.”

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          None of this is incorrect.

          But I have been hearing about this plenty. For example, in the article we are discussing.

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      it would be a national crisis. “Something would have to be done!”

      People are already saying something has to be done because it is a national crisis. Toxic gun culture prevents any serious actions

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        The right has been pretty open about what kind of America they want to live in and what they’re willing to do to get there. We should all believe them and take them seriously, because they are fucking serious.

        Fascist militias are popping up left and right, and the only gun control measures that pass end up restricting the rights of citizens in blue states while red states continue expanding their own. Unless you can magically disarm the entire nation simultaneously that cat is out of the bag.

        I’m optimistic about the future and hold no deluded fantasies of armed conflict, but there may come a time where you’ll wish you had access to normal capacity magazines and non-nerfed rifles. Jon Stewart is not going to come rescue you when they have you on your knees in front of a ditch.

        Disarming the working class under the current hyper-capitalist regime doesn’t really work in our favor either, and in most instances gun control is proven to be a political loser that equals to nothing more than a waste of time/effort and only serves to cripple a campaign.

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        Comprehensive mental health care for all is not being blocked by gun culture, it’s being blocked by the typical Republican calls of “SOCIALISM!!”

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      People aren’t silent about men successfully committing suicide at a higher rate to women. You hear about it all the time. However, it isn’t an issue about men being overlooked, like you imply. Women attempt suicide at a higher rate. Why didn’t you discuss that? Is it being ignored?

      The fact of the matter is suicide by firearm is the worst offender. Attempted suicide needs to be prevented for everyone equally, but firearm ownership should be more restricted, and there should also be tools out there to get your firearms away from you temporarily if you’re feeling suicidal or depressed. Men are more likely to own firearms, which is the issue that needs addressing to fix the disparity, not men being ignored.

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        Real question here. I don’t know how the number of attempts is calculated. If a single person attempts unsuccessfully 3 times, then is that recorded as 3 separate attempts? Or is this recording the number of unique people who have attempted suicide any number of times?

        If it’s the former then it may be an indicator that women prefer methods of suicide that are less likely to succeed, but it is much harder to tell how many individual women actually attempt suicide compared to men.

        Also, if a person is suffering enough that they’re seriously contemplating suicide, is taking that option away from them really the right thing to do? There’s also the issue of any such system being abused. It’s easy to imagine law enforcement using this as a way to disarm groups and individuals for political reasons.

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          For the first part, I’m not sure how it’s counted.

          For the last, I think we need legalized assisted suicide. I don’t think suicide should be taken on a whim, but I do think it should be legal for people suffering, and they should have access to painless methods. They should first be checked to see if there’s anything we can do to help them though. (All of this should be paid for through taxes, not by the person suffering. Elon Musk has more than enough money to cover this for everyone.)

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      54% of those deaths were suicides. 26,368.

      Mental health for men? Silence.

      There are people who advocate for “men’s rights” things, but they’re mostly conservatives, and they leave out the horrifying statistics about gun ownership among men because they’re also in the pocket of the gun lobby.

      It’s a taboo subject even amongst family members of those affected to talk about the role of firearms in suicide.

      The reality is that gun ownership can turn a bad, lonely night into a person’s last one by pure virtue of the fact that it’s so readily available, and so often deadly.

    • oce 🐆@jlai.lu
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      Mental health is not considered enough in general. What makes you think it is worth for men?