I understand the way abusers/narcissists convince the victim. Sorry, it sounds like you know first hand and hope you’re in a better place

Being autistic, the instant someone is rude or abusive on purpose with the intent to cause harm or stress, I’m out. No apologizing will ever make me forget they purposely wanted to cause me harm. If I would never purposely hurt someone, then I expect the same

It’s crazy that people forgive the first time they’re abused by someone