Latest hits: if gender is performative that means it’s fake and patriarchy doesn’t exist! I don’t know who Judith Butler is!

    • CatoblepasOP
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      “Just write a thesis on why you’re right” no, lol

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          If they’re questioning your model then just provide a good empirical reference to support it

          Yeah I guess that’s more “do my homework for me”

          • frayedpickles@lemmy.cafe
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            No, it’s saying they don’t understand what you want them to understand and they need help in a concrete way, but this issue doesn’t actually impact them except in the form of threads like this, so they sure aren’t gonna go research it themselves because that’s generally how humans work. I think I captured that right.

            Or perhaps, instead of treating people who are broadly on your side like dumb children who simply aren’t trying to meet you half way, acknowledge that you need a different framework for communication with them. Or don’t.

            The other poster probably meant something along those lines

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              Or perhaps, instead of treating people who are broadly on your side like dumb children

              This thread isn’t about them, glad to clear that up

      • Soulg@sh.itjust.works
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        wah they don’t understand something I tell them

        "Hey here’s a way to help them understand "

        fuck you you’re not my teacher

            • Peachy [they/them] M
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              Be nice. There’s no need to insult.

              People aren’t required to teach you anything. Anyone educating during their free time is doing volunteer work.