• Catoblepas
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      11 days ago

      “They can’t help it, only the 1% have agency” isn’t going to ring true with anyone who’s actually been assaulted for using the ‘wrong’ bathroom.

      • JaggedRobotPubes@lemmy.world
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        11 days ago

        “Puppet” creates exactly this misunderstanding.

        It’s more like, “they are operating off of misinformation to which their behavior is a reasonable response”. They are being misdirected so that they choose to use their agency to do this shitty thing, because their misunderstanding makes it look like a good thing.

        It does feel like letting them off the hook, but punishment doesn’t create allies. This way of approaching it creates a very real possibility of them switching sides, and doing so genuinely.

    • Doug Holland@lemmy.worldOPM
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      11 days ago

      Lemmy is small enough, and your moniker unique enough, I keep noticing your comments and nodding my head yes. If you’re ever in Seattle, let’s go bowling or something.

      • MutilationWave@lemmy.world
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        11 days ago

        You can go to their account and favorite them if you want to follow what they’ve been talking about. I just started using the feature like a couple weeks ago. I have to resist the urge to go upvote someone’s old comments.

        • Doug Holland@lemmy.worldOPM
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          That option isn’t visible on my desktop screen… I just check their profile once in a while. Besides, if I pick a favorite, wouldn’t everyone else’s feelings be hurt?

    • Duamerthrax@lemmy.world
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      11 days ago

      Yes, but who’s responsibility is that? Push this meme in the right wing circles. It’s preaching to the choir here.