• bunnyBoy@pawb.social
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    2 days ago

    We’ve gone all the way around so now censoring a swear makes people more upset than actually saying it and I really don’t understand why.

    Year 2000

    Say ‘fuck’

    People get irrationally mad

    Year 2024

    Say ‘fxck’

    People get irrationally mad

    What happened?

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      20 hours ago

      Your comment implicates you are in favour of censoring swear words. Coukd uou enlighten us as to why?

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        14 hours ago

        I just feel like people can choose for themselves. As another commenter said it takes a lot of the ‘oomph’ out of the swear which I believe does have a time and place. But many people seem to be over the top ofended if you choose to do so.

        I’m certainly not suggesting that ‘everyone needs to censor their swears, think of the women and children!’ But lemmy seems to get more angry than I would consider reasonable if someone does censor themselves.

        Best anti-censor swears argument I keep seeing is that people are doing it to be more advertiser friendly which is making the internet worse overall, and I whole heartedly agree with that, but sometimes with no other motive than I would prefer it, I like to say fxck instead of fuck.

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          If you want to swear then swear. If you don’t want to for whatever reason, then use creativity to get your frustration, need of emphasis, or other emotion through. Choosing to censor yourself is just weak.

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            7 hours ago

            I like your comment and I want to posit this.

            If you want to swear then swear. Cool, I agree with this as it’s following a simple ‘Do what you want’ kinda thing.

            If you don’t want to swear, don’t swear. Again sweet, do what you want.

            But what if I want to swear, but I want to censor the swear word, even superficially (replace a vowel with something else, leaving the swear entirely readable where everyone can easily tell what swear is being used)? This is where I’m seeing a ton of people suddenly not as okay with people doing what they want, and that’s what I was trying to get at with this comment chain. Why are people so upset at people censoring themselves in this way?

            And I’m not even suggesting that I do this all the time, just in some cases where I specifically want to swear, but softer. Like when I’m trying to make it abundantly clear that I’m not swearing at someone, I’m just swearing in general.

            I really hope this doesn’t come across as confrontational and I appreciate that you took the time to reply. This just really feels like something that harms no one but for some reason makes a lot of people mad.

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      2 days ago

      The younger generations decided that being offended by swear words is fucking stupid.

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      In adult-facing parts of the internet, including here, swears are typically used for an extra bit of “oomph” to spice up a sentence or make a point clear. (I know that there’s an actual word for this but I can’t think of it currently.) It’s generally considered neutering that spice if you censor it; case in point is this meme. It just tends to look childish or dumb, especially if the word is just vaguely censored like this meme here again. At least Grawlixes (“$#@&!”) have some mystery as to the word being said.

    • rockerface 🇺🇦@lemm.ee
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      2 days ago

      If you want to make a post without swear words, just do it. Using a swear word and then censoring it completely defeats the purpose