• TotallynotJessica@lemmy.worldMEnglish
    32·
    27 days ago

    Always remember:

    • You can’t accurately judge how you look. Even Taylor swift can’t tell how good she looks.
    • Online femboys do not represent most femboys, or even themselves. They don’t look as good IRL.
    • Mark the post as NSFW and put a trigger warning in the title if you’re mentioning suicidal ideation. Some people might not feel safe here if this flashbangs them.
    • dandelionEnglish
      12·
      27 days ago

      yeah, was going to mention selection bias 😅 good call-outs all around

  • flicker@lemmy.worldEnglish
    11·
    26 days ago

    Friendly reminder to all y’all that if you see a beautiful person online, it’s real real real likely you’re looking at a clever lie.

    Everything online now is edited, curated, altered. Study after study shows how bad that content can be for you and your self-esteem.

    **Consuming content that glorifies people based on their appearance is self-harm. **

    Don’t objectify women. That includes yourself.

    • flicker@lemmy.worldEnglish
      15·
      26 days ago

      Also… I keep winding up in y’all’s space from all. Hope that’s not a problem.

      Sometimes I see in you my little sisters, and I can’t help but wander in and try to set you on your feet and brush the dust off your tear-stained cheeks, and remind you that you don’t owe anybody anything, especially not to be pleasing to them to look at!!

      You are strong, and fierce, and capable, and anyone blessed to see you should be grateful you gave them the opportunity and didn’t scratch out their eyes as the fee for your largesse!

      • VerticaGGEnglish
        2·
        26 days ago

        Well said, please know and be reminded this sort of message inspires, has reach, and does good for sisters and siblings more than one can ever know 🫶

  • Heavybell@lemmy.worldEnglish
    3·
    25 days ago

    that face when when when

    We can fit one more “when” in there somehow, I’m sure of it.