• Rolando@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    So there’s one approach to fortune-telling where you convince them that you have some magical ability to figure out their secrets, and then you use cold-reading techniques to trick them into thinking you have mystic powers.

    But there’s a better approach where you give someone an open-ended set of symbols, and you use those to help the person think through the issues in their life. You’re giving them the opportunity to reflect on things from a new perspective.

    • a Tarot card might have symbols for “loss in worldly matters” and be in a position that represents their past
    • another card might have symbols for “an older person, very patient” and be in a position that represents their current circumstances
    • another card might have symbols for “the end of a time of plenty” and be in a position that represents the conflict of their current circumstances
    • another card might have symbols for “gain through cooperation” and be in a position that represents their future

    So you talk to the person and describe what each card means, and they think about how it applies to their life. They might ask questions like: “does ‘loss in worldly matters’ mean money?” and you say “sure, it can, or it can mean something else like being reprimanded at work.” and they might say “oh, I think in my case it means (whatever).” And then you can think together how that applies to the rest of the reading. People have a lot of things going on in their lives, things can just slip by, and this gives them a chance to step back and think it all over.

  • ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.netOP
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    2 months ago

    I actually find this wholesome because while dude was initially mocking tarots, what he was really doing was being an active listener and being available for people.

    So I’m all for this type of “prank”.

  • urheber@discuss.tchncs.de
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    2 months ago

    to be fair, when youre sitting there and the person is just WAY off, you kinda feel bad and act surprised, yk.

  • DarkSirrush@lemmy.ca
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    Isn’t this the guy who married an old woman in part because she hated her family and wanted them to get nothing?

    I mean, they apparently had a very wholesome and good relationship, but it was definitely a relationship founded in part of spite on her end.

    The relationship saved his life though. She took him off the streets, gave him a loving home, helped him enjoy life again, and then passed on after giving him everything in her will.

  • I Cast Fist@programming.dev
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    2 months ago

    What I want to know is if our friend there would be up for a game of Tarot. He has the cards, just gotta learn how to play!