Hello, we were thinking about engaging in kink involving being pinned against a wall and we were wondering how this could be done safely both for pusher and pushee.
Specifically if such a thing is sudden, as may be the case in certain types of play.
Links and personal knowledge welcome. We have searched but found nothing of use yet, so thought it would be useful to ask here.
First make sure there’s no protrusion that may harm the person being pinned.
Second, make sure their head is protected from collision. The skull in general is quite fragile and one may cause irreparable harm through carelessness.
Third, take note of how arms bend beforehand else you might cause injury through forceful motions.
Fourth, the elbow has a weak spot that acts as a factory reset button. Activate it by mistake on either of them through a careless bump and any potential mood will be gone completely on the spot.
Fifth, bumping knees is quite painful, so be careful when interacting in close range.
Sixth, similar to fifth, avoid stepping on toes.
Seventh, just in case, make sure the wall can support your shenanigans.
The whole thing is a dance that needs both parties cooperating and fully aware of their environment. Miss a step and the performance will change.
We really appreciate this. Thank you so much!