• SuddenDownpour@lemmy.world
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    You guys skip the story? You don’t want to know what kind of negotiation did they go through for the AC technician to accept a carnal payment from the hot MILF??? Or how is he going to explain the situation to his boss???

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    I hate that I relate to this, because honestly I feel like constantly skipping around to get to the good stuff can’t be good for us.

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      I really don’t think spending extra time sitting through half assed foreplay is going to do the human race any favors.

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        Might do an IRL sexual partner who enjoys foreplay a favour though. I dont know that reprogramming our brains to only react to hardcore scenes is doing ourselves a favour either.

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          I think the brain knows the difference between porn and an actual sexual encounter. Porn isn’t sex ed nor a tutorial.

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      I’m firmly convinced that it’s bad for us. As is watching a dozen vids in one session and switching back and forth between them. It’s possibly the most mentally damaging way of doing the whole thing. It’s like TikTok. Imagine doing that with movies.

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    Really? Y’all skip all that? Idk, I like a good buildup sometimes. And when it comes to XConfessions and other artsy porn, I watch the whole thing after the intro.

  • 9488fcea02a9@sh.itjust.works
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    Has anyone actually watched a 1hr porn scene from start to finish?

    How? Why?

    Thry used to be like 6mins long in the 90s… The whole damn movie was an hour long… Now one porn scene is over an hour sometimes

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      I dunno people keep saying porn makes you have weird expectations from sex but I’ve never once met a person that wants sex exactly like it is in porn.

      I mean I’m sure it happens but I don’t think it’s this epidemic people are making it out to be.

      Also don’t watch mainstream porn, go for the homemade stuff, it tends to be much more natural.

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        I know what I like so I’m going with that and I try my best to learn what my partner likes. It’s definitely not ever the spiderman, upside down bullshit with my foot on her head or whatever absolutely bat-shit crazy stuff they do as if it were normal lol

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          A number of porn positions are used solely for the purpose of exposing the genitalia to the camera, e.g. like the spiderman. Camera work is the only reason anyone would fuck like that, it’s horribly uncomfortable

    • Ben Hur Horse Race@lemm.ee
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      thats crazy in my book. jerking off is just getting self satisfaction, no connection, no sensuality, I mean you’re alone with a screen.

      actual sex is amazing, and I’m not apeing what my phone screen shows, I’m really drawing it out and enjoying every little nuance. most of the porn I’ve watched has next to nothing to do with what decent sex is actually like

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        You’re still training yourself to only see the PIV/PIA (This is clearly not a Sapphic post, and I don’t know how trans man porn works) as the sexy bits. While all of the sex is the sexy bits.

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          I didn’t day I was doing anything boss, this is a meme, and you have no idea what excites me, but it’s not just pounding away as such. I’m not trying to argue with you, I just felt you were implying you know who I am and what I do when you really don’t.

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    When I find time to properly jerk it, that is when my child or wife aren’t home, it turns into an hours long edging session. I watch all the porn. Sometimes on several devices at once. I only get to do it occasionally, so why not go all out?

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    The first ~2 minutes are my favourite usually, I like the buildup a lot more than the actual porn most of the time

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      Completely agree! It drives me nuts when people skip. Drives me nuts in films/video’s, and drives me nuts in porn xD

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        Sometimes i skip 10s at a time because dialogue can get cringey then BAM he’s balls deep. I have to wonder, how did we get here? So i back up a little bit to see the masterful seduction at work.