In light of what’s happened to Durov and possibly seeing Telegram compromised, I’m doubling my efforts to find a new main messenger. Before you start, not Signal as it’s a bad fit for the needs of me, my family and friends.

So what do I need?

  • The ability to run on multiple devices. Me, my family and friends all have multiple Android devices.
  • The ability to run on desktop. Linux and Windows.
  • Built in sticker repository. What can I say, I like to lazy flirt.
  • Animated Emoji. I like my messenger experience vibrant.
  • Material You. Again with the vibrancy, but also, it’s a sign of modernity.
  • Phone number linking. My family and friends are lazy as hell.
  • Synchronized chats. I don’t mind self hosting a bridge, but the ability to see messages on multiple devices is a must.
  • Voice Messages
  • Video Calls
  • Group Video Calls
  • Stories integrated into as first class citizens
  • Private. If you suggest WhatsApp, I’m assuming you’re either stupid or a troll.

Can anyone recommend anything?

  • Of the Air (cele/celes)English
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    2 months ago

    That’s fair, although really that’s unfortunately because from what we know of there’s no really good cross platform languages/toolkits etc, so usually we do have to end up with some half-assed solution or folks having to maintain multiple native code bases. Either situation isn’t ideal, but until something that provides the option for genuine security and native looks that works well across all platforms is developed we’ll be kind of stuck.

    Oh, sad. Hopefully we can kick up enough of a fuss to evetually get it moved. We don’t know if we agree entirely that developing for only one demographic is always the best idea, but more demographics should be considered for sure, yeah.

    No, cele/celes are third person pronouns, not second person, our second person pronouns are y’all etc.

    • sabreW4K3@lazysoci.alOPEnglish
      2·
      2 months ago

      It reminds me of how Mozilla was hemorrhaging contributors but kept trying to stick to IRC. I’m definitely not saying don’t support the legacy contributors, but be aware of what modern demographics want to use and why, because if you’re not moving forward, you’re being left behind.

      And thank y’all for the clarification, I’ll be sure to get them right in future posts. Forgive my earlier ignorance. I didn’t mean to disrespect y’all.

      • Of the Air (cele/celes)English
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        2 months ago

        Oof, yeah IRC is awful and sadly we’re forced to use some things that still use IRC to communicate and we’re not really sure why. There does seem to be a derth of users that have moved with the times in leadership positions of important projects.

        We have seen it recently with some things we use and we hope it strongly forces them to consider being wrong or that it blows up in their faces. Because yeah, we agree if you’re not moving with the times you will hemorage contributors and then you’ll only be left with the ‘old guard’ or worse people (such as fascists not that two aren’t the same many time, heh).

        Also, Mozilla is just a really poorly run company to begin with and needs some serious restructuring and to stop doing things that serves only itself and not its users. If it genuinely cared about its users and allowed direct donations to firefox perhaps folks would have fewer problems with it.

        Sure, we are happy to help!

        • liveinthisworld@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
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          2 months ago

          Please explain how a properly set up IRC server is awful. If you find the time also contrast it with the more “modern” solutions like Discord and Slack

          • Of the Air (cele/celes)English
            1·
            2 months ago

            Because none of the examples you listed have end-to-end encryption with perfect forward secrecy for one, including IRC. Also, IRC specifically is very confusing to even make a username on and keep it, let alone know how to do anything else on.

            We have never used Discord or Slack, specifically because they don’t have e2ee, but at least they have, from what we understand, a pretty simple sign up process and good UI/UX.

            • liveinthisworld@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
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              2 months ago

              I admit that is inherently an insecure form of communication. I don’t see a problem if you’re using PGP though. And at least IRC can be self hosted. I suppose one can use a private Matrix instance too.

              What problems are you having in signing up for IRC? Just use a client for your OS? I didn’t find it especially hard when I did it, I’m part of a few channels for Linux. Just treat it like you treat any group chat. If there’s bots there will also likely be a page with instructions/wiki

              Unless you’re using PGP on Discord and Slack too I don’t understand how you’re not disgusted by them.

              • Of the Air (cele/celes)English
                2·
                2 months ago

                Yes, this is why we use matrix over IRC due to e2ee. PGP last we checked doesn’t have PFS, sadly.

                We remember when we used IRC having to remember all those silly commands for nick bots wasn’t exactly good UX.

                We said that we don’t use Discord/Slack for that reason, so yes, we are disgusted by them too.