• missingno@fedia.io
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    4 months ago

    Thought experiment for anyone who thinks $10 million would make this acceptable. Which I hope is no one here in this thread, but bear with me while I argue with no one.

    What if we asked this question again for $5 million? $1 million? $100,000? $10,000? $100? $1?

    How would you ever begin to draw a line? Should the law say that there is a particular price tag at which this suddenly becomes legal?

    Also, suppose, not so hypothetically, that we live in a world where poverty is itself a coercive factor. If the girl and her parents can’t afford to say no, is this really consent?

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      4 months ago

      I’m not touching the original question with a 10ft pole but…

      “Where’s the Line?” Counterpoint: you’re parachuting out of the sky onto an island. There’s a sandy beach on your left and an ocean with 20 ft waves pounding on your right. The exact line between the ocean and the sand is undefinable. I can still easily choose the sandy side, because drowning sucks.

      “Get banged by creepy old dude for $1” is definitely the water, “get banged by creepy old dude for $10million+” is definitely the beach.

      “Not getting propositioned by creepy old guy” is “not riding in homemade airplanes” maybe? 🤷‍♂️

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      I once came around the hypothetical of like, for how much would you sell your foot. People talked about millions. I modified the question to selling a toe because I couldn’t find anyone willing to even name a price for their foot. My friends were still like 5 mil, 10 mil, 100 mil when it was about a middle toe. Except my coworker, not having heard anyone answer the question, he was like “oof, hard question, I guess 50€”.

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        You want a toe? I can get you a toe, believe me. There are ways, Dude. You don’t wanna know about it, believe me.

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        People always say stuff like “I would not sell my toe for 5 million usd”

        And then you rephrase the question into something like

        “Would you sell your toe if you never had to work again, could pursue any hobby you wanted within reasonable limits, and could own a reasonable home for the rest of your life?”

        And suddenly it seems infinitely more appealing

        To me that someone wouldn’t cut off their toe (assuming anesthesia and all that) for something like 1 million usd is ridiculous. We already sell so much of ourselves and our time for work and the pursuit of money for survival.

        I don’t know exactly what my limit would be, but for a toe it might have been closer to somewhere in the tens of thousands of dollars range.