• Todd Bonzalez@lemm.ee
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    4 months ago

    Because people desire both romantic companionship and sexual exploration, but society pressures us to choose one or the other, and shames us for even trying to communicate our needs and wants to our partners as a form of selfishness, so we end up doing whatever makes us happy, at the detriment of others’ happiness, when it never had to be that way.

    • flerp@lemm.ee
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      4 months ago

      There they go blaming society for being too afraid to have a conversation with their partner again…