• cobysev@lemmy.world
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    So smart, but struggles to keep up with homework

    I just stopped doing homework altogether. It stressed me out, so I avoided it completely. Besides, I learned a subject by reading about it in our textbook, or studying it in class. I felt like homework was just busy work, hammering in concepts I had already learned in school.

    I aced all my tests, but lost tons of points for never turning in homework, so I graduated high school with about a C average. It didn’t matter; I got a great IT job in the military, got an excellent pension and full medical/dental benefits for life, and fully retired as of 38 years old. Who needs homework?

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      7 months ago

      Same. By 10th grade I learned to make a deal with my teachers to base my grade solely on my final exam or paper. Most were surprisingly willing to agree to it.

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    ADHD can also have tie-in with minor symptoms of ASD, which could negate the overly-emotional part. Or at least the outward expression of it.

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      7 months ago

      Since you never said what your acronym for ASD is, I’ll just tell everyone that PineRune is referring to Anal Stimulation Disease.

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        7 months ago

        As an autist, I am often told I have a stick up my ass (when I miss cues and don’t realize something is a joke).

        So… Acronym checks out.

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        7 months ago

        Anal Stimulation Disease You sound like an expert. Please elaborate on its association ADHD.

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    Childhood? Still fit most of those!

    What would have been the biggest difference had you known back then?

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    Years later, I was finally able to accurately describe jobs I didn’t want to do as a child - such as homework - as grey lumps of goo piled up as a supremely undesirable blob on my desk, while everything else was a technicolour kaleidoscope of distractions.

    At the time, however, I just didn’t have any way to pass on this impression to others, so they could understand.

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    I like how the always felt like the weird kid has red hair. Thats me as well as the rest.

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        Or if you’re not lucky, they learned to mask very well after getting abused for it in their childhood and do the same thing to you!

        Edit: Not sure why I’m getting down voted for talking about my own experience.

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    7 months ago

    Can we talk about that headline

    It took effort to read that damn thing and I had to look at it logically instead of what my eyes were telling me

  • meseek #2982@lemmy.ca
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    I remember our dad always making jello for desert. Always. He went on like a jello tirade for like 3 months. I loved it. My sis loved it. We both loved jello. Then one day he brought it out and I couldn’t eat it anymore. Since that day I’ve probably had jello twice voluntarily and still didn’t like it. It’s been 30 years and I still hate jello lol

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    Some of these can also be ASD symptoms or caused by ASD symptoms

    I feel like I’ve experienced some but not all of these or a variation of it as an autistic person