The Picard Maneuver@lemmy.world to People Twitter@sh.itjust.works · 4 months ago"Thought-Terminating Cliches"lemmy.worldimagemessage-square167fedilinkarrow-up11.14Kcross-posted to: exmormon@lemmy.world
arrow-up11.14Kimage"Thought-Terminating Cliches"lemmy.worldThe Picard Maneuver@lemmy.world to People Twitter@sh.itjust.works · 4 months agomessage-square167fedilinkcross-posted to: exmormon@lemmy.world
minus-squareQueen HawlSera@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up85·4 months agoThought Terminating Cliches can be useful because it is not productive to worry about things over which you have no power.
minus-squaresamus12345@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up47·4 months agoNot YOLO, though, which is often used to stop thinking about the consequences of choosing to do something stupid.
minus-squareruneko@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up23·4 months agoI also often hear “It is what it is” to mean “someone made a bad decision and I’m not fighting it like I should.”
minus-squareareyouevenreal@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up13·4 months agoOr the thing has already been done.
minus-squareGnome KatlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up11·4 months agoI see it used oftentimes to dismiss systematic injustice aswell… “it is what it is”… which on an individual level feels like we have no control over but is infact something we have a lot of control over. A very malignant useage I feel
minus-squaresamus12345@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8·4 months agoYes, the subject being dismissed is what makes it a good or bad thing. Is it something you have zero control over? Good thing. Otherwise, bad thing.
minus-squareDefault_Defect@midwest.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·4 months agoI associate it with “I suck as a manager, but I kiss ass hard enough to fail upward.”
minus-squaresamus12345@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·4 months agoIt’s specifically good when you’re ruminating.
Thought Terminating Cliches can be useful because it is not productive to worry about things over which you have no power.
Not YOLO, though, which is often used to stop thinking about the consequences of choosing to do something stupid.
I also often hear “It is what it is” to mean “someone made a bad decision and I’m not fighting it like I should.”
Or the thing has already been done.
I see it used oftentimes to dismiss systematic injustice aswell… “it is what it is”…
which on an individual level feels like we have no control over but is infact something we have a lot of control over. A very malignant useage I feel
Yes, the subject being dismissed is what makes it a good or bad thing. Is it something you have zero control over? Good thing. Otherwise, bad thing.
I associate it with “I suck as a manager, but I kiss ass hard enough to fail upward.”
It’s specifically good when you’re ruminating.
That’s fair