• Catoblepas
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    6 months ago

    Having a fetish for something doesn’t mean you want it to happen for real. People with a rape kink don’t want to be raped for real, for example. Even people who practice BDSM don’t want to be brutalized, what is or isn’t OK and how to make the other person immediately stop if you don’t like it is laid out beforehand. It’s all role playing.

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      6 months ago

      Yeah, that was quite a big detail I forgot existed. Thanks for the reply, have a good day