Some personal examples that come to mind are:
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Being late for work because I heard the people in the apartment next to me leave and I waited five minutes so I wouldn’t have to share the elevator
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Cleaning my house for two hours before strategically placing items I can talk about just so I can have a friend of multiple years over and after they left replaying things I said to make sure I didn’t say anything embarrassing
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Not being able to look my Tinder date in the eyes even though we’ve been talking for a month and we had planned to have relations that evening
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Spending $200 on a sweater at a craft market because I worked up the courage to ask the price and couldn’t bring myself to say no thanks
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Forgetting something I needed at a store and just leaving because I didn’t want to face the cashier
They’re all things that are silly in hindsight that I later realised the average person likely wouldn’t have done. I know no one would have really cared in these situations.
Just curious what stories people have.
Just gonna barge in to say, this post and its comments, and this community explains what I’ve experienced in my life so much and makes me feel almost certain it’s some form of anxiety disorder. Thank you random strangers for this diagnosis