Our rule is that as long as masturbating doesn’t replace/impact the desire or ability for partnered sex, it’s all fair game and free range.

However, if you’re gonna do it while your partner is gone, our rule is to at least ask if the other person wants to help or watch.

Sometimes that means getting kissed, rubbed, or hugged from behind while you get yourself off. Sometimes you just wanna bury your face between your partners legs and get off, but you or they don’t want fullll fucking