• Krauerking@lemy.lol
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        8 months ago

        Stop looking for your dopamine in fighting people over self perceived sexism you want to exist.

        You are even adding additional language to others to feel more enraged. It’s a negative spiral and completely self imposed.

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          8 months ago

          They’re the one who used the word bitch :D I’m going to name bigotry where I see it, no matter how unpopular it is for me to do so. Hope that helps!

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            8 months ago

            Reread your comment and think about how excited you are to point out that they said a word you don’t like. It’s one thing to actually fight against bigotry it’s another to try and police language others use as a way to feel a sense of control and superiority.

            The feeling that you are fighting against a just fight is giving you a dopamine hit the same way the Facebook algorithm is designed to get you to fight in the comments. It’s pointless and hurtful to your own sociability. You are just picking fights that make it less easy to have an actual conversation.

            I get it. But this ain’t it Whoreticulture.